Ashley Madison wants You to Have an Affair!

In what may have been one of the outrageous exhibitors at not only Affiliate Summit, but any other conference I have attended… AshleyMadison.com takes the cake. “Life is Short. Have an Affair“… that’s the slogan behind AshleyMadison.com, which is a dating network specialized towards people looking for “extra-marital affairs“. Instead of on the exhibit floor, maybe this one belonged in the “Ethics of Affiliate Marketing” Panel? I know I wouldn’t have wanted my $4,995 booth next to theirs!

While looking up more information on the company, I found another article on their business of making millions by connecting cheaters. For the CEO of the company… breaking up relationships is purely business.

“This is just a business to me. This is a market need, just like any other business that’s successful. There’s huge demand for it,” says Chief Operating Officer Noel Biderman, who is married with children. Biderman says he is faithful to his wife, but he doesn’t object to the fact that cheaters have helped his online business make more than $20 million since it started in 2002.


Flyers handed out at Ashley Madison Booth
“Thou Shall Make Money from Adultery”

I’m sure they would have had a lot more attendees at their booth if they had fellow adulterer John Edwards in the house… so, what are your thoughts on AshleyMadison and their attendance at Affiliate Summit East 2008?

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47 pieces of wisdom given by ye faithful
  1. Hugo Santos said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:03 am

    i wonder what would Noel think if his wife cheated him using his service! lol

    This is another proof that this kind of business is profitable… Just look at craiglist to see who is looking for some fun…. you’d be surprised… or not…

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  2. Kiley said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:04 am

    Stupid. “Life is short. Let’s help screw up lives a little more.”

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  3. Eric Nagel said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:08 am

    I did everything I could to avoid them (sorry to their neighbors, Market Leverage). But then I gave in when I saw they had golf balls to give away. I’m a sucker for free stuff.

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  4. Annie Coryat said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:12 am

    Hi Zac, Great post….It brings up the issue.. can anyone who can pay the tab exhibit? Does affiliate Summit and the other trade shows,ad-tech etc. have guidelines

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  5. Quitting The Day Job said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:13 am

    See a need, fill a need.

    For me, it’s immoral, but it’s not as bad running adult niches.

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  6. Annie Coryat said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:15 am

    I would love to hear what Sean or Misty from Affiliate Summit thinks of this issue?

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  7. Zac Johnson said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:29 am

    I’m sure Noel would have been disappointed if she didn’t sign up through his affiliate link.

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  8. Zac Johnson said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:32 am

    I’m sure they have done their share of research, and found that it’s better to walk away with golf balls, then no balls at all. Giving away anything they can to get people to stop at their booth.

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  9. John said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:32 am

    If you are going by morals i would say to me cheating is worse then looking at porn.

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  10. Tim Jones said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:51 am

    I spoke with Shawn about this at the conference. I was as shocked as could be to see them at the show. I would not expect to see them, again — even if it’s only because I don’t believe they received much value for the conference. I am not speaking for Shawn, Missy or Affiliate Summit in any official capacity [/disclaimer]

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  11. Tundra said on August 14th, 2008 at 12:12 pm

    Wow, pretty ridiculous. That booth shouldn’t be allowed at Affiliate Summit.

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  12. Emma said on August 14th, 2008 at 12:22 pm

    The whole concept is pretty appalling but their slogans make it even worse.

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  13. Zachary Bianchi said on August 14th, 2008 at 12:36 pm

    What about the issue of merchants exhibiting and recruiting affiliates directly while their booth is right next to an affiliate network carrying their offer…guess it makes negotiating payout easier…you don’t have to walk far.

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  14. Jonathan Radande said on August 14th, 2008 at 1:07 pm

    In terms of marketing, it was brilliant! I couldn’t resist, I just had to grab one of their shirts, even though I will probably never wear it.

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  15. Jonathan Volk said on August 14th, 2008 at 1:13 pm

    Blech! I think this site is just terrible.

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  16. Geiger said on August 14th, 2008 at 2:20 pm

    Wow, and here I thought pop-up ads were unethical!

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  17. Geiger said on August 14th, 2008 at 2:21 pm

    On second thought, this could simply be hardcore corporate linkbait! Get a ton of links and traffic then switch the business! :D

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  18. Dave Martinez - PPC Fool said on August 14th, 2008 at 2:59 pm

    That’s just wrong …

    Saw a news piece on them awhile back, they actually will create fake hotel/airfare/business receipts etc… to create a nice alibi for you! It’s unbelievable, but the sadder part is the biz seems to be doing well and growing.

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  19. Quitting The Day Job said on August 14th, 2008 at 3:24 pm

    I guess you have a point. The more I think about it, the more I am agreeing with you.

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  20. Quitting The Day Job said on August 14th, 2008 at 3:26 pm

    Give it away on your site, I would wear it.

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  21. Start Blogging said on August 14th, 2008 at 4:05 pm

    Wow, extremely creative! Bad to those who use the service, but probably great for the people that created it.

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  22. Richard said on August 14th, 2008 at 11:15 pm

    Thanks for making me aware of this so I can promote it. It looks great!

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  23. noelisaloser said on August 15th, 2008 at 1:42 am

    I agree with above poster - It was a bad call by Shawn and others to let this exhibt into the summit. This Noel guy is a pure lowlife and I can’t wait until someone brings a plague to his site for which there is no cure.

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  24. Daniel said on August 15th, 2008 at 3:10 am

    I think they cross a line that shouldn’t be crossed, especially at Summit. I’m all for risque entertainment and such, but facilitating adultery is over the line. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you should do something.

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  25. Affiliate Confession said on August 15th, 2008 at 6:18 am

    I think Ashley Madison is scum, how’s that!

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  26. Jeff said on August 15th, 2008 at 8:31 am

    Damn, you guys are pretty harsh. The reality of the world is that some people simply are not satisfied with their sex lives. Some people don’t get sex at all, but many times divorce is too costly, there are children involved, etc..

    There is a huge demand for this service and I give them credit for fulfilling a need. Whether you want to promote it or not is your decision, but don’t instill your morality on others.

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  27. Stak Loaded - How to make money doing nothing! said on August 15th, 2008 at 8:50 am

    i’m willing to bet that everyone bashing this company is a noob in the marketing world. a lot if not most people market products that they have no ties to or dont care about at all, just because they’re profitable. people are gonna cheat anyway, so if you can make money helping them do it, why not? who cares? if ashleymadison didnt exist, the same people using it now would be cheating anyway, they’d just be using other dating sites and bars to do it

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  28. Kiley said on August 15th, 2008 at 9:53 am

    Yes, of course, people have morals so we are instantly AM noobs. Made a lot of sense.

    I’m going to start a site called edgein.com. It’s going to be great service! I’ll match serial killers up with victims through 666 dimensions in order to gain maximum compatibility. Furthermore all members addresses will be accessible no matter the level of membership.

    The bottom line is; yes, cheating happens, but sites like ashley empower people even more.

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  29. Quitting The Day Job said on August 15th, 2008 at 11:19 am

    Yeah, I can make money in the adult industry, but when my kids ask me what I do, and how I make money, I don’t want to have to tell them I peddle porn.

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  30. Daniel said on August 15th, 2008 at 11:59 am

    Lines have been drawn at Summit. I don’t care if they exist, I don’t care if they make millions - I care that they’re at a trade show that I feel they don’t belong at. Shawn and Missy don’t allow porn services at Summit, and they shouldn’t allow this.

    As for “instilling your morality on others”, all of us do that all the time. You just have your lines drawn a little further away than some of us.

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  31. Billy said on August 15th, 2008 at 7:36 pm

    yeah i agree

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  32. Jason said on August 15th, 2008 at 9:50 pm

    Lol, that’s one way to use false logic. I laughed so hard after reading this comment.

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  33. John Chow said on August 16th, 2008 at 3:36 pm

    They were at Affiliate Summit West so I wasn’t shocked to see them at Affiliate Summit East. I still remember the TV informercials they used to run. Those were pretty funny.

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  34. Monty's Mega Marketing said on August 17th, 2008 at 9:58 pm

    I have seen these guys before. It’s the same old thing…sex sells. I really think this is worse than the adult niche. If some single guy or even married guy wants to watch porn…who cares? Screwing up your marriage, though, is not worth it. I haven’t been able to bring myself to market them.

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  35. Nicole Price said on August 18th, 2008 at 2:02 am

    This is preposterous! Whatever will they think of next? So there is a market for teaching terrorists how to make bombs; should there be a service for teaching that as well?

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  36. Zak Show said on August 18th, 2008 at 6:32 pm

    Make money from adultry, sounds good!

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  37. Sire said on August 19th, 2008 at 4:00 am

    As much as I would love to make money I stop at crap like this that display no morals. What is really shocking is that society lets this sort of stuff exist. I was always under the impression that adultery was illegal.

    Perhaps I should set up a stand next to them. “Finding And Kicking To The Kerb Cheating Partners….No Fee Too Small!

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  38. Andrew Mason said on August 19th, 2008 at 5:06 pm

    I saw these at ASW in Vegas. I bet it does sell but the morals are pretty low.

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  39. aryeh said on August 21st, 2008 at 5:57 am

    Some people will do anything to make money. Our ability to chose and our decisions make us who we are and aren’t.

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  40. Polly said on August 21st, 2008 at 10:52 am

    Money can drive people to do anything…

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  41. Shawn Collins said on August 22nd, 2008 at 9:06 am

    Affiliate Summit has a policy where “sponsorships will not be sold to adult or gambling companies.”

    We are open to revisiting policies whenever we receive complaints.

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  42. Otooo said on August 24th, 2008 at 3:25 am

    Woah, now I have seen it all…

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  43. Goran Web Design said on August 25th, 2008 at 6:55 am

    That’s just sad, but smart way of making money. Hah! :-D

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  44. DC said on September 19th, 2008 at 11:39 pm

    They should be ashamed of themselves for finding more reasons to make Americans look like soulless individuals who can’t even hold the most basic of values. I am sick and tired of the youth and this new pop culture telling us what is “cool” or acceptable. It is time to speak out against this nonsense. I am sure everything is so funny to those who are doing wrong, until it is their spouse who cheats on them. Bravo Greed.

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  45. Debz said on October 3rd, 2008 at 4:08 am

    There are a ton of sites out there devoted to helping people cheat on their husbands and wives. Type “affair tips” in google and see how much stuff is out there. I personally think it is great because it gives us a great place to catch people cheating. Set up a profile describing what you think your husband or wife is in to, then sit back and wait for them to contact you.

    I’m sure the divorce lawyers would love to see those screen shots!

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  46. Jdizzy said on November 17th, 2008 at 12:47 pm

    Great Segment - Great Product - Great Marketing.

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